Is the Counseling You Receive or Give Healthy or Unhealthy/Godly or Ungodly?

Healthy/Godly counseling should:

1) teach Godly principles and truths.
2) bring healing.
3) bring restoration.
4) bring deeper relationship with God and others, includung self.
5) bring blessings.
6) bring increase.
7) bring Godly insight, wisdom, and revelation.
8) bring unity in and through Christ Jesus.
9) bring forth the fruit of the Sprit as written in Galatians 5:22 (love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control).
10)bring forgiveness.
11)increase faith in God and what He is able to do in spite of our weaknesses.
12)cause us to want to look and act more like Jesus.


Unhealthy/Ungodly counseling:

1) may appear Godly, but teaches ungodly truths and principles.
2) teaches you to take the easy way out when things are uncomfortable for you or are not going according to your plans.
3) teaches that it's okay to place your needs(self) above those of another.
4) encourages someone to think, "It's all my fault" or "It's all their fault" or "I didn't do anything to lead to this".
5) leads to, or increases, discord, dissension, division, withdrawl, separation, bitterness, anger, depression, despair, ungodly sorrow, feelings of rejection, shame, guilt, or unworthiness, etc.
6) causes anyone to fall away from, or be separated from God and His love for them.
7) teaches it's okay to break covenants/commitments to others.
8) exalts man's "wisdom" above God's.
9) does not bring healing, restoration, and/or forgiveness.
10)leads to an action that brings Biblical, generational curses.
11)creates doubt and unbelief in what God can do.
12)leads to, or increases, ungodly, unhealthy behaviors.